religiously every Saturday and I think I read in THE ADARVE, blog-forum view Miguel Angel Santos Guerra, and this Saturday the issue revolves around what a woman after a lecture he delivered has told with grief.
This was the dialogue that she had with her son.
-Mamá quiero ser viejo-
-Por qué quieres ser viejo, hijo?-
-Para no tener que ir a la escuela-
Y nos dice además con qué angustia se lo ha narrado la madre, que es a la vez una educadora.
Sí, de verdad buen tema, mucho para reflexionar. ¡Que un niño prefiera convertirse en viejo antes que ir a la escuela! En verdad nos pone a pensar.
Siempre me he preguntado por qué sucede eso. No me lo he podido responder, y menos con una respuesta única.
Habría que ver en qué contexto se dio la situación. Qué niño, qué edad, qué escuela, qué situación familiar.
Puede ser un niño que no quiere tener compromisos ni obligaciones, es más stay nice to sleep late and get up to do what one would come forward. And who "does not like, perhaps," as Joan Manuel Serrat?.
I worry about the mother's sadness, the feeling that this child was able to awaken her.
I think if one of my children I had raised what she raised hers, it would have been my response:
"And I would like to be Peter Pan, to never reach old son wanted to look. You have no idea of \u200b\u200bwhat is "being old" -
Children know very well how to manipulate their parents, and know well the pitfalls of love.
Then, of course, converse much with him to know why not go to school. If there is good dialogue with the child, I see no reason why it can not express it.
a colleague may have done him some kind of threat that feels discriminated against, that does not provide integrated games or work, which some find it very difficult issue and no longer dare to ask for further explanation, that classes be boring ... ... can be so many causes!
Generally children who refuse to attend class are the starters, are afraid of the unknown, and they do not know what happens there.
remember the case of a girl many years ago, he refused to go to school. But he had never attended school, was to begin first grade.
All older siblings attended school normally, but this girl nagaba. Crying came accompanied by his mother at times, brothers, the father even decided to take her car one day, but could not get the girl let go of the door of the vehicle. It was an almost dramatic, an entire family in a car, trying to pull by force a girl who screamed desperately. No power
the girl stepped RICE even the sidewalk of the school. Lost
year. Not to be passed the following year with the girl if the end be able to resolve your conflict.
People are so complex!
addition to teachers we should be psychologists to unravel every suffering that we see emerge a few eyes with tears.
and transcribe here the words of Eva Salinas, Asturias great teacher, who very rightly said in his commentary:
guided heads work with hearts, and that is the most fragile there.