I read today an article about our day, THE DAY OF THE WOMAN. Expresses
a part that women work hard, at home and abroad, and men have them been removing some responsibility for their backpacks.
But I disagree a little in this regard.
Around this time something is changing.
always say that "I have been an avant-garde " because ever since the beginning of my marriage, nearly 30 years ago, when most women my age to break the soul to do all the housework , care of children and spouses as if they were in a hotel and also work outside the home, I chose to share everything with my husband, I made partaker of all: changing diapers of children who came to the world one after another prepare bottles, give them their shots, take them to the garden when I was not ... Of course, I was not at all an easy task. We had to break the mold and traditions. I took this very seriously as part of the price for becoming a teacher.
There was a sort of shock in the families of my husband's and my own when they discovered that delegates KITCHEN MAN OF THE HOUSE.
I had to fight with the looks and comments from my mother atrocious like this:
"I never let your father touch or cover the pot, what does that man in the kitchen!
O my mother when she said:
"If the father is not no cook-
who was a terrible struggle, pure sword and spear, but gave up.
"Marriage is for two. Children are both father and mother each time I repeated that I had a chance. I can not be both at home and at work.
I had to admit that one could not yet. I needed help.
Sometimes we have feelings of guilt, because we lose many things, that far from being works are priceless and unique moments without replay, such as the fact accompany our children on their first day of classes or see them perform at school parties ...
Well, nothing happened.
My husband thoroughly enjoyed our children and continues to do so. Do not miss an opportunity to share their time. Was created, yes, a very close strong among them.
I think we've raised our children with total balance and without trauma. My three sons
cooking wonders, like his father. The girl, like the mother in the kitchen is very creative.
But all is well, and everyone accepted our family rules.
Neither men are men or women unless we are fewer women to share household chores. Admittedly
women costs us to involve people and give some space.
We have not invented the day of man, I think we're in debt.
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